Taming the Tongue

FRF Web • January 26, 2026

It is a world of fire

The Power and Peril of the Tongue
James 3:1 to 12

James turns our attention to one of the most revealing indicators of the human heart: the tongue. He begins with a sobering warning. “Not many of you should become teachers, my brothers, for you know that we who teach will be judged with greater strictness” (James 3:1, ESV). Teaching the Word of God is a sacred responsibility. Those who speak for God publicly are accountable not only for accuracy, but for faithfulness and humility. This warning aligns with the Reformed understanding of God’s holiness and the seriousness of handling His truth.

James quickly broadens the scope. “For we all stumble in many ways” (v. 2). The tongue exposes our fallen nature. Total depravity does not mean we are as evil as possible, but that sin affects every part of us, including our speech. Words reveal what resides in the heart. Jesus Himself taught that out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks.

James uses vivid illustrations to show the disproportionate influence of the tongue. A bit directs a powerful horse. A small rudder steers a massive ship. Likewise, the tongue, though small, guides the direction of a person’s life. Words can encourage faith, sow peace, and proclaim truth. They can also destroy relationships, corrupt doctrine, and inflame sin.

James does not soften the diagnosis. “The tongue is a fire, a world of unrighteousness” (v. 6). Left unchecked, it becomes an instrument of destruction. He goes further, stating that it is “set on fire by hell.” This language reminds us that sinful speech is not neutral. It reflects the spiritual battle at work in every believer. While we are justified by grace alone through faith alone, we still wrestle with remaining sin.

Verses 7 and 8 highlight human inability. Humanity has tamed animals, yet no one can tame the tongue. It is restless and full of deadly poison. This drives us to the doctrine of grace. Sanctification is not achieved by self discipline alone. Only the Spirit of God can bring true change. A transformed tongue flows from a regenerated heart.

James exposes the inconsistency that should grieve every believer. With the same mouth we bless our Lord and Father, and curse people made in His likeness. This ought not be so. A spring cannot produce both fresh and salt water. A fig tree cannot bear olives. Our speech should reflect the new nature we have in Christ.

James 3 calls us to examine our words honestly. For those united to Christ, this passage does not lead to despair, but to dependence. We look to Christ, the Word made flesh, who never misspoke, never sinned with His tongue, and bore the judgment we deserve. By His grace, our speech can increasingly reflect His truth, humility, and love.

We always encourage everyone to check everything through the lens of the Scriptures. Be like the noble Bereans of Paul’s day. Please visit us here for much more, and remember, Christ is enough.


Until we meet again, lets go serve our King...and keep that fiery member under the reign of Christ amen?


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